As I was preparing for my mate, the Lord required me to bring an end to all relationships with males who thought I might date them. I am speaking about males who either were interested in me or I was interested in them. I had to let any male from my past know that I was not an option for them. He is not talking about calling up guys out of the blue and telling them to get lost. NO. He is talking about not leading anyone on thinking he might be the one. If God has not told you he is the one to marry, stop any courting type relationship immediately. You won’t have to search for these guys. Some of them will seek you out when you least expect it. Be prepared. See this as an opportunity to seek God for direction. If He tells you “no”, bring closure to that relationship. If He tells you “yes”, you’re on to the next step.
While you wait to hear “yes” from God, study and live the lady walk. Get ready to receive your mate. This may not happen on your timetable. It will be on God’s schedule. And, believe it or not, God’s schedule is based on you. When He sees you are getting in position to receive the gift He has for you, then He can begin the process for you. If you are not in position, the process can not begin or you will miss the guy when he comes. You will be looking to the left when you should be looking to the right. Pay attention to the Spirit. He will lead you every step of the way.
Remember, you can’t receive the man who is to become your spouse when someone else is in the way. Steve Harvey was on TBN talking about how he was expecting to get this car he had been wanting for a while. He talked about cleaning out the garage and making space for the new car. He had an illustration of the garage cluttered then sitting empty until he brought his new car home. Steve Harvey said he had to prepare the garage for his new car and had to get rid of what was taking up its place. Otherwise, he would not have had room enough to receive the new car. You will have to go through the same process to be ready for your mate.
Faith Step #3
- Learn about Godly Dating
- Study the difference between dating God’s way and dating the world’s way
- Which form of dating would a lady choose?
Taffi Dollar has a tape series on Dating God’s Way. I listened to it years ago. I think it will be a refreshing look at a topic we all think we know how to do. But, do we know how to do it God’s way? This is a serious question that you need to answer.
Peace be with you…
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